Tomorrow morning we say goodbye to my family in Michigan and begin the 20-hour drive home. Our time went by fast and I’m already emotional about leaving, but I’m trying to remember what my likes to say: “Receive what you’re given and don’t always want more.” I really shouldn’t complain. My mom has plans to come to our house in February for another special occasion—baby #3. So at least with her it’s just a temporary goodbye.
We had a great trip overall, but watching our kids connect with my family was the best part for me. Sky and Micah were basically attached to my mom’s legs all day long, and when they got fussy around naptime they preferred her to me. Maybe I should feel hurt by that, but I’m not. The break was nice. Last night Adam and I had a date and my sisters spent the evening entertaining the kids. Sky popped out of bed this morning full of things to tell me about her night. “We did finger paints! And had chicken nuggets! And LOOK!” She held out her hand. “Auntie Weezie gave me an ARIEL TATTOO!” As I sit here writing, Micah is “helping” my brother Nelson build a fire in the fireplace.
I can’t say I’m ready to leave, especially when I think about 20 hours in the minivan, but we have a lot waiting for us at home. February, Lord willing, is baby month! And once we get home, I’m sure that’s where our thoughts will turn.
We’re hoping to get home sometime on New Year’s Eve. I don’t usually make resolutions, but I do have a general sort of goal for this next year. Adam and I noticed during this trip that Nelson always seems tuned into the spiritual aspect of everyday life. If his car breaks down, he wonders if God is deliberately changing his plans for the day. My reaction is usually irritation first, followed by a little ranting and raving, and then an effort to get the car working again. But I’m probably missing out with that response. Lately it seems like God is constantly pointing me to verses in the Bible about being still and quiet, and having a calm spirit. So this year I want to be more like Nelson. A little slower to react emotionally, and more deliberate about seeking God in my frustrations, even the small ones. It seems like it’ll be a better year if I can stay calm and watch for God, no matter what 2012 holds. I guess a 20-hour car ride with the kids is a good place to start.
“A quiet spirit can overcome even great mistakes.” – Ecclesiastes 10:4b
I hope you have a wonderful New Year!
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